In my 15 years of coaching, women have come to me over and over again with the same problem: falling for a married man. The stories always begin the same way: "There's this guy We connect in every way and he makes my heart flutter like a schoolgirl.
I also remember a Ghanaian actress once made a comment about women having to depend on men to sustain themselves. From my conversations and observations, provision of basic needs is one of the major reasons why women tend to prefer married men to single men. Age, single men unwilling to settle down, the maturity of married men and experience amongst others are also reasons why single women prefer dating married men.
Not between the wives and me, though I would be interested to hear their side. No, this discussion should happen between wives and husbands, annually, the way we inspect the tire tread on the family car to avoid accidents. A few years ago, while living in London, I dated married men for companionship while I processed the grief of being newly divorced.
Up until about seven years ago, I had a somewhat black and white view of sex and adultery within a committed relationship. Case in point:. Talking to my friends, many of them shared the viewpoints I held, especially points one and two. Call it a mid-life crisis if you want, but some time in my early forties it started to bother me that I had no sex drive.
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But the truth is, even in the happiest marriagesaffairs can happen. Maybe a close relationship with a colleague goes too far during a long night at the office. Or an unexpected dalliance occurs on a vacation with friends.
Photo by Lumina. Susan is the successful owner and operator of four metropolitan home design studios. She's attractive, intelligent, and confident.
A colleague had managed to convince me it would be a good opportunity to network with other people in the theatre industry, so I swallowed my inferiority complex, put on deodorant and trekked to an apartment nestled in the North Vancouver mountains, only to find myself alone in the kitchen. Everyone there—aside from the odd boyfriend or girlfriend of an actor—was a national artist. I recognized many of them immediately.
Before my experience sleeping with a married man, I was the type to utterly condemn people who had affairs. I had zero sympathy for people like that. And then — it happened to me.
By Caroline Kent. The reasons that married men have affairs are well documented: apathy, boredom, revenge, lust, excitement, etc. But what a lot of people don't ask is why on earth a woman would want to knowingly get herself involved up with a coupled-up man. Take the intelligent, sexy, independently successful Julia Gayet.