Is it okay to be romantically involved with a guy who doesn't share my Christian faith? He asked me out on a date six months ago, and though at the time I didn't think it was a good idea, I went ahead and accepted. Now he's captured my heart and I don't know what to do.
Whenever we see our friends do this, the reaction is always the same. Now I have to be honest, I have definitely said those words myself. I have acted shocked and appalled when one of my friends dated a non-Christian because to me, it seems so simple.
Often but not alwaysthose who are pondering this question readily acknowledge that the Bible says a Christian cannot marry a non-Christian. Nevertheless, they believe they can move down this path because 1 the Bible does not forbid dating an unbeliever; 2 their romantic relationship can serve as a means of evangelism to the unbelieving boyfriend or girlfriend; 3 their situation is unique; or 4 a combination exists of some or all of the above. In answering the question whether a Christian can date a non-Christian, it is important to first note that the Bible, strictly speaking, does not forbid Christians from dating non-Christians.
Hey, girls! In fact, we are revisiting some of our most read posts this month as part of our attempt to give you some great advice on the subject of romance. Lately there has been some discussion on this blog about whether or not it is okay for Christians to date non-Christians. We encountered this same conversation over and over as we did research for Lies Young Women Believe.
But the temptation to get romantically involved with a non-Christian tends to be framed differently. In this article, I shall not be trying to give a method for counseling people who are facing such a temptation. Such an article would include a clearer picture of what marriage looks like: making decisions about career, where to live, how to spend money, how to raise children, etc.
I cannot believe you chose your God over me! I was born to a Christian father and a Taoist mother. I did not know what I was doing at the time—I simply followed my mother and held joss sticks to pray.
Often Christians are in a church with an uneven number of single Christian guys and girls. This probably made them feel guilty or feel bad. But they want to be in a relationship and there is nothing wrong with that.
On the last day ofI stopped replying to his emails. Our relationship was over. At the time, I was already above the age of 25, so my non-Christian parents were anxious to see me married—but not to a Christian.
It's a question that is regularly asked, but not always accurately answered. It confuses, perplexes, and even angers both Christians and non-Christians alike. It sounds elitist, holier-than-thou, and downright condescending.
Missionary dating is something many of us have heard of, but how many of us have actually taken part in it? I understand that God can use all things to work together for the good of those who are in Christ, but I cannot help but wonder if God would encourage a relationship that is unequally yoked. Seek Him first.