I'VE been going out with my boyfriend for six months and really love him. Q I'VE been going out with my boyfriend for six months and really love him. We have great sex, but he's started going on about anal sex and wants me to try it.
Roe McDermott is a journalist, arts critic, Fulbright awardee and sex columnist from Dublin. I know life plans never work out, but I always hoped to get married at a young enough age that I would be able to enjoy married life for a bit without having to worry about the biological clock ticking away. At the same time, I always wanted to have a couple of relationships before settling down so I could get to know what I liked and disliked in a partner, while having some fun and learning how to make a relationship work.
I read your articles all the time and I have a question. You say that marriages benefit from conversing about sex, but what if your partner discredits your opinion? My partner has an anal fetish.
He actually just did it, said he had to poop, while we were watching a movie. I feel so unattractive and unwanted. Anyone else have this problem?
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If you're not comfortable with anything sexual at any time, then the answer is always to make clear to a partner that you aren't comfortable with what they want, and wait until you are comfortable with whatever that thing is. If you never are, that's okay. It's pretty rare that any two people will want to do everything the other does, or want to do the same thing at the same time, or in the same way or situation.