However, you may find some unexpected benefits. My current guest, Sandy and her husband stayed living together for three years because of financial constraints. The divorce process took place over three years.
My marriage ended about four years ago. However, because of economic reasons, my ex and I were forced into what most would deem an intolerable situation: being separated but not being able to separate. Our marriage was finished but we could not afford to spilt up with a mortgage, two kids and our own small business to support.
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They have elected to become LATs — couples who live apart together. These parenthetic caveats may say something about the arrangement. It is also very expensive — to keep two houses going, especially when you have children, is not something most can afford.
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Have you and your spouse decided to get a divorce but are still living in the same house? Your date of separation has legal implications in many states. It can be tricky proving that you are really separated if, for family or economic reasons, you are still living together in the same house.
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We are separated, but are still living together and plan to do so for a while. Neither one of us could have predicted that after many years of marriage and multiple kids, our living situation would shift from following the roles of partnership to creating boundaries and maintaining a friendship outside of wedding vows. The truth is, we still need each other in some ways, so we are choosing to co-habitate.